Section 10:  Sexual state broken down.

 Sexual state is THE most important thing you will learn from this guide.  It
is THE mind state you will be using to deal with women you want to sleep with. 
It is most likely the mind state you've had every time you ever sexed a woman
in the past, at least as soon as the point came when you KNEW it was gonna
happen. There is a certain "walks like a duck acts like a duck, must be a duck"
dynamic working for you in the sexual state. If you act like her lover, act
like you are in a sexual encounter and assume the behaviours and actions of a
great lover, she eventually will start to think you are a waterfowl. Just
kidding, of course she starts to go into the same states of mind from other
sexual encounters she has had in the past, if she is at all attracted. This is
what's called "rapport congruency".  You can look it up if you want to read 300
pages of dime store psychology, but suffice to say, if all the actions and
states are present your mind kinda starts to assume it's the same situation, a
milder form of "déjà vu". 

 Furthermore, when someone perceives something in someone, but isn't directly
told to them verbally by the person, they tend to think its THEY who are the
ones imagining it - that it is comes from within them. That's why I tell you
later to not verbalize your sexual intent in any way, as when you don't, she
will more likely to think, "Why am I thinking sexually about this guy….hmmm I
must want him or else I wouldn't see him as such a horny guy."

 The "sexual state" is readily stepped into by imagining how you interacted
with your last lover when in the bedroom before sex, or during pillow talk, and
had a lustful desire for the woman. These are the things that it should
encompass. These specifics are not to be used individually, but as an overall
state that you go into when dealing with a woman. Read Bruce Lees Tao of Jeet
Kune Do for an understanding of not focusing on specific technique but rather
on overall strategy that encompasses several techniques. My method has been
compared to this type of "fluid" theory, contrasting other seduction methods
that are closer to classical Karate, which focuses on memorized techniques that
take longer to master, and are harder to remember under stress.  What follows
of more of a troubleshooting guide.

10. Sensual eye contact (EC). Proper eye contact with a woman is an important
piece of your sexual state. The "bedroom eyes" are something you will need to
convey during the encounter, since you want her to develop them as well, as she
gets more and more comfortable with you and begins to mirror your actions and
"vibe". "Bedroom eyes" are also much more attractive than darting or fearful
eyes.

10.1 Closeness, or for the nit picks "physical proximity" to her is also very
important. Since you aren't gonna be seductive or sensual standing 2 feet away
from her, you need to be within 6-8 inches of her - VERY CLOSE. You slowly move
into this as you sense her loosening up a bit. Of course good breath is a
crucial at this point. Brush you tongue and FLOSS those back molars out so your
mouth doesn't smell like something that passed through the system of a morbidly
obese 10-year-old boy. See "conversation" section for why not to say that last
sentence in front of a woman, as well.

10.2 Touch her.  Since touch is the first step in getting her comfortable with
you as a sexual creature, you want to sneak this in slowly.  A good progression
is: hands, arms, lowers back, upper back, face (while whispering something to
her) and hair, then thighs (hand placed but relatively stationary), and upper
legs. You should NOT look at you hands as you touch her, as this alerts her to
a "question" - "is it ok to touch there?" in dynamic.  Also, her eyes will
follow your eyes to the touching and it will be unnatural, thus questioned by
her or rejected. Touching also shows that "confidence", and may alert her to
your being good with women, a fine lover, and confident lover. It demonstrates,
"I am not afraid to touch women, because women like to be touched by me", to
her inner workings.

 Touch early on also is a HUGE time saver, if she is so uncomfortable with you
touching her right from the start as to physically or verbally stop it, NOTHING
you say or do, short of saving her life is gonna get her into a sexual state
for you.

10.3 Tone of voice should be that of a sexual tone. You can't run up yelling
like Adolf Hitler at a nazi youth rally speech, or mumbling and stammering like
Woody Allen. NOT SEXY. Not "talks like a duck".  Imagine you are talking to a
former or current girlfriend in a bed and about to have sex.  You soften your
voice, you deepen your voice, you speak slower and with an inflection of
optimism and kindness. Not your regular speaking voice but YOUR sensual sexual
voice. They were right when they said "just be yourself" they just never told
you what "self" to be.

Simply sliding into the sexual state will usually encompass the above
behaviours inside of itself. Overall these are the medium sized chunks of
sexual state, the large being "be horny", and the small likely being to many to
ever be fully understood. The small chunks may encompass micro facial
expressions, body positioning, or even ESP (extra sensory perception) . Its
like how knowing there are vitamins A, C, D in a fruit, and taking those things
out and using them in a pill, doesn't give you all of the undiscovered things
that are inside a fruit that may be beneficial. We just KNOW A,C,D are
essential for good health. It's the same here, we know that sections 10.1,2,3
of this guide are the medium chunks of what's essential, and we know that
eating the fruit is essential (natural sexual state). Lets just live naturally
rather than trying to condense it all into a pill or formula and ENJOY eating
the fruit (being horny) that gives us all we need.

Now, advanced deal here. Not really a part of sexual state itself, but an
obstacle to it sometimes and dealing with it.

10.4 State matching. Quickly notice her state before you approach, is she UP,
kinda down, or laughing a lot?  STAY in the sexual state, but keep your actions
kind of similar to hers so as to not break her state entirely, causing you to
be seen as intrusive (breaking rapport). You want to convey the sexual state,
but you don't wanna break her state either. This is another reason lone wolfs
are easier to go for, as they usually aren't in some kind of "group state" of
ruckus or laughter ect.  You can approach women in strange states by matching
theirs once you get far more advanced, but go more for the calm ones at first. 
This takes a butload of practice to get down, but as I said this is a
trouble-shooting section and not techniques to obsess on.

As an example of state matching WHILE conveying sexual state:  Imagine your
girlfriend just got home from work she's EXCITED as hell about a promotion she
got at work.  Now you've been waiting all day to have sex with her, but you
wouldn't just walk up and go sexual on her because it might break her state and
cause her to kind of reel back.  Instead, you would put your arms around her
and say some sort of "wow that's great", in about half the excitement level she
has. This will curb her excited state slightly enough for her to begin
recognizing your sexual state.

So say she's really down because her cat just died, you kinda get a little bit
down too, but not completely as down as she is. This makes her kinda follow you
into the less depressed state, enough so that she can pickup on your sexual
state. She of course assumes it's HER sexual state, since you aren't saying
anything sexual and she just perceives it.  So, "I must be horny cause I'm so
sad" or "getting excited about this promotion got me excited about other things
as well" is what she thinks.  Of course it works a little less on strangers
than a girlfriend, as they don't yet see you as a sexual outlet (except by
virtue of being a man and having a penis).  So it takes them some time to say
"why am I horny for this guy".


Simple huh?  No?  Sorry, this last one takes some field practice to get down.

Section 11 

What to say. What you say isn't that important - rather, its how you present
yourself to her.  Still you need to talk or be labelled an alien so here goes. 
Simple advice and techniques, as the sexual state, is FAR more important to
convey than what you say to her is.

The opener, as I said can just be simple a "hi", "hello", or "you from around
here" ect. Introduce yourself at some point with your FULL name, first and
last.  People used to do this and it had a touch of class, dignity, pride and
authority. Now its like, "I'm Dan, I don't have a last name I'm just Dan, I'm
simple Dan ". Also being on first and last name basis is good, as she won't
feel like a "slut" for having sex with some guy who she can't delude herself to
think she knows.  Get used to introducing yourself this way all the time and
within 6 months it'll be natural so you don't have to think about it.

 Say her first name a few times after meeting her, like before a question -
"Becky, how do you find yourself in Los Angeles?"  Many psychologists say that
hearing your name from someone builds a connection, as they usually only hear
it from friends, family, and people they like. Don't obsess on these small
details, but if you can remember to work it into your convo, great.  So long as
its not at the expense of breaking your sexual state, and failing to convey
that to her. Might be a buncha pop psychology bullshit anyway. Try to get used
to doing it though, as it can't really hurt anything and may help.

 The conversation. You don't need to worry about what you aren't saying to get
into women's pants. It's what you're saying to keep you -out of them- that you
need be concerned about. Try not to swear so much you fucking asshole, its not
really sexy.  Don't talk about puke, shit, piss, ejaculate, death, your horrid
job, her horrid job, illness, religion, politics, rape, child molestation,
pornography, or SEX (yes that's right no sex talk, being sexual yet tactful
with your words is what women call "subtle", and as was mentioned, gets them
thinking sexually EASIER than saying it outright). Nothing NEGATIVE. You don't
wanna talk about her problems or negative things, so if it comes up change the
subject.  Otherwise, she'll tend to associate negative things with you. It's
the same problem that talking about romance and love ect, causes, except in
reverse.  You don't wanna talk about these things that she associates as GOOD
with you, because it will prod her to put you into a dating "make him wait"
"start a relationship" frame of reference.  The same goes for negative topics. 
You want the topics as neutral. People underestimate the power of just getting
to know each other as a comfort builder between folks, so they complicate it
with LOADS of "say this, say that" armchair psychology.

 Just get to know each other as you convey your sexual state, and watch for
hers to appear. "Where are you from?", " what do ya like bout the area",
"what's your favourite TV show?", "why do you like it?", "what do you like to
do for fun", "ok well IDEALY what would you LIKE to do for fun?" (they never DO
what they like for fun, but like to talk about it).  Keep it light -> "getting
to know each other before we fuck" kinda dynamic. More important to stay in
sexual state than to try to "say the right thing" or "get her to think this
about me by saying this" ect. Have some fucking curiosity about people you are
gonna do the wamba mamba with would ya!!!!!!!! Her imagining you doing your
hobbies, watching the same TV show, going out to the same drive in ect, gets
her to imagine you as a normal person, not some guy with a van, ball gag,
camera equipment, and a pistol outside waiting to lure her into the lead role
of a "snuff" film.

 The power of "me too-ing".  Saying, "oh my god that's so true", or "me too I
love that" ect even when it's a lie, makes you seem more "meant to be" or
"compatible".  This is the best verbal technique I've come across yet.
Opposites attract? BULL, people hook up with people who are in the same kind of
place mentally, or at least who are somewhat agreeable with their little "model
of the world".

Let her get to know you. If she's at all attracted the conversation will get 2
sided within a minute or so. 

 BIGGEST OF ALL, don't leave, eject, walk off ect just because there is a lull
in conversation. She may like you ALOT but she's nervous and can't think of
much to say. You just haven't verbally connected yet or found out anything
about each other. Do you know how many people have lost the love of their life
because they didn't give it 5 more seconds???? 910,876,531 that's how many! No
I don't fucking know, but GET REJECTED, don't just walk off. "make the ho say
no"

 Not a lot of conversation material here huh? Well most guys who are getting
bikini models and strippers, as well as all other women into bed, have NO
scripts, NO hypnosis phooey, and NO lines. They are just acceptably attractive
enough, even slightly overweight, maybe a little short, maybe a kinda odd
looking, BUT GO FOR IT! They don't hide their sexuality and they persist where
other men tuck tail and run.

 I commonly get snubbed, the cold shoulder ect or overall rejected with the
women I have sex with right away, but I just persist and eventually things take
a turn. You love to breath right? Well I don't care how bad a fart is lingering
around you are eventually gonna say "shit I love to breath I think its worth it
to smell the fart". Air = sex, bad fart smell = your love handles, bad teeth,
short stature or balding head in this metaphor. Cyanide gas  = morbid obesity,
stinky armpits, deformities and such. They'd rather hold their breath forever =
rather go without sex than have it with him.

Section 12
Watching for her sexual state. As you maintain your sexual state and convey it
to her (as you're get to know each other), the MAIN key is watching for her to
finally move into sexual state herself. THIS is when the iron is hot, and you
must strike while that iron is hot. This is when you isolate her (as in lone
wolf example, and in mildly unattractive woman getting guy alone example).

 The keys to recognizing her sexual state coming to be are again something
difficult to explain but EASY to recognize. Good explanations are: she lowers
eyes and smiles coyly at you, starts to look at your crotch or touch you back
sensually, gets flushed and seemingly embarrassed (soon to be bareassed), and
starts to stare "hornily" at you and play with something in her hands slowly.
These types of things are strong indicators.  As you deal more and more with
women, you'll get to know a sexual state in a woman more readily.

 Its kinda like you both are in sexual state, you know it, she knows it, she
knows you know it, and you know she knows it, so its time to isolate and make
bacon (had to add a tasteless reference in there, ask me about "hot buttered
corn" some time while not in mixed company).

Section 13
ISOLATE. You cannot have sex with women in public or in front of people with
any consistency. If that's your bag, try it with women you are already in a
relationship with. You have to get her alone with you.  ANY opportunity to
isolate BEFORE going into sexual state should be taken as well of course. 

 A semi-isolation is a good tactic at bars during the seduction stage. She will
undoubtedly have friends with her who will up her social conditioning, AND try
to ruin sex for the 2 of you out of jealousy or concern for her safety.  This
tends to happen BEFORE you've gotten her amped up sexually enough to snub them
and come with you. At a bar, when you see a group and want one of them, WAIT
for her to leave the herd, wait for her to be coming out of the bathroom (not
IN as she may have to piss bad), wait for her to go to the bar to get a drink,
wait for her to be ALONE to approach, and then try to keep her from her
friends.  Take her to the dance floor, ask her to another part of the club to
shoot pool or talk ("its quieter over there"). In public this isn't so easy,
they will think you are weird if they catch you watching them. So when in
public, if you've just GOTTA try for a girl in a group, get a phone number and
chalk it up as a loss.  Or, if you've got balls of steel, sit down and try it
out.  Then, watch in horror as the friends ruin it. In public, don't try to
entertain these groups to "get in"; it's a waste of time that could be spent on
a lone wolf.

 A full isolation (your house, her house, your back seat, a broom closet, a sex
room at a party ect) is for after you see her go into a sexual state. What you
say isn't important, "lets save some money and go back to MY place and have
some drinks" (at a bar), "I'm having a barbecue up at my place later you wanna
come up and listen to some music for a while" (when in public), or "you should
come over to my place and check out my weight equipment" (at the gym). Once
they are in sexual state they are ITCHING for ANY opportunity, so you don't
need some smooth line.  "Lets go in here" to a sales clerk as I opened the door
to a storage room, worked once.

Of course if a girl NEVER goes into sexual state for a long period of time, you
just try to isolate her anyway and "make the ho say no". NEVER eject. Always
either get either a lay, or a rejection.  Only TWO options.  Don't bail out by
getting a number or something. The ONLY time you get a number is if she is
totally strapped for time and making excuses of that nature, and in that case
call her once and don't think about her again. Basically phone numbers are for
when you really don't even care if you sex her or not, or you don't care to
expend the energy involved in the particular situation or dynamic.

Section 14 (hey I'm superstitious)

The close. Once isolated, the words "why don't you come sit with me"? or "why
don't you come lay down here?" are CHAMPION.  Of course in a broom closet you
just press up against the wall and start kissing. At home after you get her
laying with you or sitting on your lap ect, you start to touch her even more at
this point, stroking her hair saying it smells nice (HER HAIR YOU PERVS), you
then get a good eye contact going and go in for a kiss, give her a soft light
kiss with no tongue at first, keep this going until things progress to French
kissing, give a good 30 minutes of foreplay to get her REALLY turned on so that
she doesn't give last minute resistance.  Clothes don't come off for 15-20
minutes, panties don't come off for 25-30 minutes. Then you are on your own,
I'm not godamn Dr. Ruth. 

14.1 the last minute problem with sex. This happens sometimes, she'll say "I
don't know you enough" ect. When this happens don't get mad or upset ect. Just
say, "I understand" or "ok, this is nice though huh?" then go back to necking
and making out. Eventually go back in for the sex, if happens again say "I
understand" and go back in for more kissing and making out, and repeat until it
goes through. Hell even if she never gets ready, what have you got better to do
than make out with some hot little number? You've got no real "make the ho say
no" style of getting a close or getting a rejection to work with at this point,
as she already has said no but MAY change her mind. DO NOT struggle or tug or
bear weight on her at this stage, as that is considered rape. Use persistence
not force, and you'll be ok.


Section 15

Relations with women. This isn't integral to the system just some advice I'd
like to dispense, which you may find useful in dealing with women. I'm no
relationship expert but these have been ideal ways of looking at things in my
experience.

15.1 Relationships are really based on attraction. If one partner knows they
can do better they will usually treat the other party poorly or not reciprocate
the attention. If you are a "5" and want a long lasting relationship that you
feel some love in, find another "5" with a compatible personality.  Of course,
you'll know you can do better (with these skills), but you'll also know they
can't. 

Less jealousy, insecurity, and overall hidden desire to get someone better. You
get with a 3 and you are a 5, and you won't feel much of anything for them in
the way of passion and desire, so you'll make them kinda miserable and
insecure. You get with a 10 and you'll know you can get another one (with these
skills) but your attraction will cause you a rampant level of lust and desire
that just isn't reciprocated.  That will just make you feel like shit all the
time. Kinda the "only people I fall in love with don't love me back" syndrome,
so common these days.

15.2 In ANY relationship a good method to avoid pain, mess, and eventual
heartbreak is to ALWAYS look at how you are being treated and how the
relationship makes you feel. NOT at what you feel for them. To do this gauges
the base level of passion and attraction she has to you. At the FIRST
discomfort or pain caused by the woman in your life, LEAVE. Make her crawl back
and apologize. Following this method will set boundaries that will last. You
leave and won't take her calls, and she has to crawl back to you crying the
first time she yells at you holds out sex or hurts you in some way, and there
probably wont be a second serving of that dish. It's hard to do, but it's
important to your well-being. Jaded? Flighty? No. I'd say smart, as it doesn't
drag out something that's gonna end anyway, leaving you hurt worse than if it
had ended sooner. " It is far better to resist at the beginning than at the
end" - somebody clever.

15.3 If a relationship goes bad, or hurts at all, and is dragging out as
"friendship" or such, CUT IT CLEAN and you'll get over it sooner.  If you don't
it may drag on for a long time, with you getting degraded and rejected. These
kinds of relationships drain you in all other areas of life, try  to avoid them
at all costs, but if you find yourself in one, RUN! "Work it out" with someone
new, the next one with a clean slate who hasn't pushed so far into your
boundaries yet.

   "When women love us, they forgive us everything, even our crimes; when they
do not love us, they give us credit for nothing, not even our virtues" -
Balzac.

15.4 When you are in the grasp of love and obsession over a girl always ask,
"If I could have sex and a relationship (if I wanted one) with the next 10
beautiful women I see, would I forget that I ever knew the one I am with right
now?" If yes, you would, you don't love her.  You are sex-addicted and probably
putting up with way too much shit. Its time to have a showdown with her, unless
she's just a fancy of yours or a stranger of course, in that event its time to
try to sex her. Also ask yourself when in an LTR or when being just friends,
"if I could come and have sex with this woman as frequent as I want, but would
lose ALL other activities and conversations with her, would I trade that?"  If
you would only want her for sex, don't put up with her shit if she's giving you
any.  Don't waste time with someone you really don't enjoy, when you could be
out finding something more enjoyable and compatible, ALONG with sex in that
time spent.

15.5 Women sooth issues.  A break up from a long term relationship can be
murder on your limbic system, self esteem and well being. The main reason for
this is that you have mental issues you've learned to deal with. A woman comes
along who not only makes your dealing with those issues easier, but quells them
altogether. She makes you feel desirable to women, makes you feel like a good
lover, makes you feel like someone worthy of love. She leaves, BOOM, you aren't
only missing her ability to quell these issues, but NOW have to learn to deal
with them and get used to them all over again. Realize this. Use a pain filled
break up as an opportunity to recognize and GET RID of these self esteem
problems. Don't be a co- dependant, always defining who is important to you by
what gaps of yours they can fill (mind out of the gutter people), instead be a
complete person (self help jargon I know). Seek the permanent company of people
you WANT around you, not NEED around you. Eventually you don't hurt anymore
this way.

15.6 Grief as a rebound. OFTEN when you don't want a relationship to end and it
does anyway you will hold onto the pain as a means of not accepting it as
REALLY over. You fantasize about the other person crawling back begging to be
with you, because they've seen the error of their ways. Not a good idea, this
only prolongs things, focus on YOU and what she did to "complete you" that
needs to be complete on its own by your own rethinking of self esteem, goals
and ability to succeed. Remember YOU are physically the same now as before you
were ever hurting over this woman, only now you aren't used to being you
anymore, you are used to being you AND her together. The electricity in that
brain of yours lies, true love is new love, not someone sticking around forever
in order to fill each others needs.     Romance writers of old are responsible
for all the pain you've ever felt over lost love, remember monogamy and
commitment, even the word "love" are a 100th as old as  man, while sex and
short pair bonds are timeless. No one ever killed themselves over losing a sex
partner until someone decided co-dependant relationships were some mystical
bond that must hurt when severed then told and wrote about it.


 Just my thoughts on how to stay happy when it comes to love and relationships,
tested, used, and approved by me, myself and I. Once I'm complete emotionally,
ill find an emotionally complete woman to attempt a permanent bond with. Til
then as temporary as possible hot sexual unions, and a little pain in
completing myself through future failed relationships and finally the search
for the emotionally complete, "semi attractive" woman looks good to me.


16. WILLPOWER is all you need in life. As a rule try not to fantasize period,
fantasy is what tells your super ego that it has what it wants, because you
"id" knows it isn't possible. To purposefully  fantasize, visualize and imagine
things at length is to also tell the "id" that something isn't possible. You
must have some slight visualization of anything to create initial desire, but
to actively fantasize will only cause you to see something as impossible in the
form of diminished willpower. ACTIONS are SPARKED by thoughts, not carried out
by them. Thoughts paralyse action after a while. My one life lesson, WILL to do
what YOU want in life is all you need.






RECAP:
 This isn't rocket science. That's why it can be understood and adapted to
various situations.

Look YOUR best, see lone wolf, realize she loves sex, get sexually turned on
for her, approach her in sexual state, convey sexual state to her, get to know
her while in sexual state, watch for her sexual state, isolate.

Or even easier to remember, 1. be sexual, 2. watch for her sexual state, 3.
isolate. Those 3 things are all I take out into the field at a conscious level.
The rest has to be filled in to each specific encounter and takes a little
practice and time to get ingrained into you. I have seen it work the first run
out, by a fucked up looking guy. "Paralysis by analysis" can be deadly to the
willpower, so get on the ball, stop reading and take those 3 phrases, inside
your head, out in the field with you and get laid.

And remember "make the ho say no".


Gunwitch.