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How to get out of a depression with NLP by Nelson S. Beltran Number one, find a really good NLP Trainer in your local area. You are looking for the practitioner level certification training. NLP stands for neuro-linguistic programming which was founded by Richard Bandler and John Grinder;two of the brightest scientists in the world. A very good book to read is called NLP, The New Technology of Achievement and Nightingale-Conant offers a set of six audio tapes by the same name. One may imagine learning new ways of coping with depression, now by learning NLP. Number two,on the physical level start a daily exercise program somewhere,now. I started my Bally's Total Fitness membership in the very beginning, and now just purchased rollerblades. I learned how to rollerblade by "modeling" children using NLP. I learned how to do aerobics by "modeling" the hard-core athletes that attended the club regularly. Initially, I had a physical with my physician to check the vitals of my body. Just imagine how good you will feel, see and hear yourself every morning the day after working out. Number three, rally support from your parents. If your parents are deceased or are unable to support yourself emotionally, financially or physically. Remember to remember what strengths you have while growing up in childhood, now. Rally support from friends, and co-workers you are close to. Rally support from a good psychologist or psychiatrist who was referred to you by a close friend or family member. One may imagine security and support from all parts of the world,now. Number four, find a money mentor. Start consolidating debt to one mastercard or visa. Start investing in your life by gathering information on the best money strategies. In my case, I joined the Charles Givens Organization just to understand the basics, but this is not for everyone, especially those who lack income or equity. Learn everything you can about how money is saved, spent, and most importantly invested. In depression, spending can get out of hand especially if you started drug therapy. Start a subscription to Worth or Fortune magazine to understand the market and what downsizing means. When I wanted a massive change in my life, I purchased Anthony Robbins' Personal Power Tapes, a Bally's membership and a Givens membership with my available credit. In time, I was able to pay all of it off. I would rather invest my money in something that will build up my earning power, physically, emotionally and most importantly financially. Using NLP techniques to create a future that you can see, hear and feel,now, will enable one to become more financially secure. Number five, create your own success program or better yet purchase one with your newly acquired credit. Read Unlimited Power or Awaken the Giant Within by Anthony Robbins or better yet invest in his "Personal Power Tapes." In NLP, we ask ourselves,"What is the outcome ? What do I want to see, hear and feel in my near future as my outcome ?" One may imagine ways of being disciplined in this secure program or not ? Number six, get inspired and dream big. Attend an NLP oriented seminar just to see, hear and feel what NLP is all about, there are seminars on "intuition," "career building," "self-confidence," and just about anything relationship oriented. One day seminars are good at creating a decision for you whether or not to pursue NLP training. Start collecting books from the best of the best, one may learn new understandings and new solutions. I picked up a piece of paper and started listing a "dreams list." I listed everything I ever wanted to do, have and become. I started keeping a daily journal to help track my progress, it only takes 15 minutes to do, as time goes by everything you hear, seel and feel can be brought up in your NLP training. Listen to Steven Covey, by creating a "mission statement." Number seven is simply taking action. Do something that will bring your dreams closer to reality even if its just walking in a mall to see your future purchases or walking in a new car lot and even talking to someone who is expert in that area of expertise. You will get results after you've taken clear action steps towards your dreams. Failure is just feedback, its only feedback. Remember depression is not permanent.