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Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast Subject: David's Field Report Date: Wed, 02 Oct 2002 08:57:49 GMT A great read! I went through Mystery's workshop in LA and want to tell you guys how everything went and what I thought about it. Before I start the report I'll list a summary of my feelings and impressions of the workshop. 1. PUAs are attracting girls with regularity and amazing efficiency. I'm positive that I can become a PUA if I'm determined and motivated. My major sticking point at this time is making the initial approach. Mystery suggested that I concentrate all my efforts on approaching women and starting a conversation. My goal is not to pick up the women, but to get comfortable at walking up to them and talking to them. This is hard for me, but I plan to follow through with his advice. 2. In order to win over babes you have to put on a show for them. If you wanna pick up girls in clubs or bars then you'll have to learn to approach groups, because you'll almost never see a HB in a club by herself. You'll have to practice the "Art" of picking up women. Mystery has his act polished, even though he talks about new things that he's trying. 3. Reading how to seduce women online is not enough. You have to go out and do it in the field. Then you can see the holes in your routine and you can come back to the internet and find stuff to patch the holes. A very important thing that I learned was that being a PUA is an ongoing project. If something stomps you, then instead of being discouraged the thing to do is to figure out a routine or method to counteract that situation in the future. 4. Overall the workshop was very valuable for me. I would encourage people of all abilities to take the workshop. I gained a good idea of how a PU is supposed to progress. I learned some very useful openers and gained an attitude of confidence. As a RAFC, it was invaluable for me to hang out a few days with some real PUAs and see the possibilities. 5. Mystery is a very good story teller, but his teaching style is a little difficult to get used to. He teaches mainly by example and by telling stories. You have to be ready to learn a lot of the MM by watching him. He also tells lots of stories. It took me a while to figure out that I should use his stories as a learning tool and not just for entertainment. 6. Mystery is a master PUA. He was better than I expected. He showed no fear of approaching groups. He also had the ability to become the focal point of everyone in both public and private settings. He used this social proof as a big part of his game. He closed every set he entered, except for the one set where the women knew that he was conducting aworkshop. He's a "BAD" man. Mystery's Workshop Report DAY 1: I met Mystery and his wing Chris Powles on Thursday in a classy Hollywood hotel lounge where everyone was extremely well dressed and good looking. Three of us were signed up for the workshop. I'm in my early 30s. One guy was a little older than me and the other guy was a lot younger than me. Just as we walked into the lounge, Mystery walked over to a table of 5 women and started a conversation. I was impressed, and was thinking to myself that this was gonna be an awesome workshop. We talked for a while, and found out that the first day was supposed to be a demonstration by Mystery showing us that the mystery method does actually work. We talked about a couple of openers, but I didn't really know the full wording of the openers. The openers are basically small stories that are non sexual and are supposed to be told with enthusiasm to begin the conversation with women. The younger guy knew an opener and had the balls to approach a 2 set, 2 girls, with Mystery's wing, Chris. After they number closed, we went to a party that Chris' girl was having. We got there and I was very uncomfortable. I was a little intimidated, because I felt like I had to do something non AFC to show that I had some PU skills. Well, I didn't do anything. Now that's smooth. NOT! I stood around nervously while Mystery did his thing and by the time we were leaving, this one girl was chasing after him out the door. She closed him. Next we hit a small bar. I learned a couple of openers and we walked in. Mystery sent me into a 2 set, 2 girls, and I blew it big time. I stuttered while I was telling my opener and they just ignored me. I was just happy that I did an approach. The other guys did some approaches and were way better at it than me. It was obvious that I was the least experienced one there. Well after Mystery # closed another girl, we took off. The most important thing that I learned on that day was that I'm doing this for practice. I'm not gonna take any of these girls home (yet), and I'm never gonna see these girls again. I have to practice, practice, practice in order to polish my skills.(BTW: Mystery number closed a lot of girls so I'm only gonna list a few examples in this post.) DAY 2: We began Friday in the hotel lounge again. We were supposed to practice our openers. We also talked about how each one of us should dress to stand out from the other guys. Mystery and Chris recommended that I dress in power suits. They also suggested some hair style changes and some posture changes. After that Mystery told me to approach a 2 set, 2 girls, and I froze up right there in the middle of the lounge. Man, I felt like a dumb ass. Looking back I would have looked a lot better if I had just approached and bombed (worst case scenario) then I did by just standing there like a scared rabbit. We left the lounge and hit another club to go to a private party that a girl had invited Chris to. On the way to the party, Mystery came down on me hard about me not doing the last approach, and then gave me a pep talk to get me excited. We hit the party and Mystery did his thing. By the time we were leaving, the waitress, an 8.5, voluntarily gave him her number. Oh man, I'm way impressed, but I feel like a piece of shit for not doing the approach in the hotel lounge. We hit this crazy cowboy bar with a mechanical bull and everything. Chris took me with him and he started the opener with a few girls and let me finish it. We did this a few times and it built up my confidence. Then we left the bar and Chris # closed some girls at the last minute. Chris is a pretty cool dude. He knows a shit load of girls and gets us into all the parties and clubs without having to wait in lines. He's the man. DAY 3: On Saturday we dressed casual. This didn't seem to have an effect on the responsiveness of the women. We started in the hotel lounge again. As we're sitting in the lounge Mystery tells me that I have to approach a 4 set, 4 women. Oh man, I hesitate and then I just say "fuck it" and do the approach. I figured the only way to get into the game was to get up and do it. I might blow it, but at least I'll feel good that I had the balls to attempt the approach. It wasn't smooth, but they laughed and bought my little story. I was feeling good, because I had overcome my fear and hesitation and made an attempt. Just as I sit down to relax he tells me to approach a 3 set, 2 girls and a guy. Ok, I'm thinking that I just freaking approached a 4 set. Can I get a break? Nope. I guess my fear of approaching women hasn't been broken yet. I'm gonna need a lot of practice in this department. I get ready to approach and the 3 set takes off (broke the 3 second rule). Whew, I'm off the hook. Not! Now I have to approach 4 set of hot looking women that look way too unapproachable from my point of view. Oh well, I take a deep breath and just do it. It's not too bad. They're willing to play along with my opener. I leave them after I tell a couple of stories and jokes. BTW all these stories are canned and I don't have to think about anything but reciting them with enthusiasm. They're just openers to get the women to laugh and loosen up. My main goal at this point is to approach and tell my openers. The other guys have other suggestions from Mystery like initiating kino, being more enthusiastic, or taking the pick up a step further. Out of the bunch, I'm the least experienced. Ok, right when we're about to leave, Mystery approaches the last group of women that I approached, the 4 set, and does an awesome demonstration of how to make a woman want you. He approaches between the target and her friend. He does his opener, and then he gives his bag of runes to the target and tells her to hold it, but that he wants it back later. He then ignores her while he entertains each of the other 3 women one by one and disarms any potential cock blocks while demonstrating personality. He then does a phase shift and returns to the target after ignoring her for about 5 minutes and softly asks her if she realizes all the trouble he just went through just to get to her. He had her chasing after him in less than 10 minutes. It was a pretty smooth # close. At this point I was beginning to understand the MM method pretty well. (BTW, these are all awesome looking classy ladies.) We leave and hit a larger sized noisy nightclub. We spread out and do approaches on any girl who isn't an UG. Chris personally helps me take my game a step further by giving me more material that I can use past the approach. I do some approaches and some I bomb and some come off pretty good. It's all about the way I approach. If I approach enthusiastically and show confidence they believe my story. If I'm too worried about what they're thinking then my approach comes off fake. Anyway after I bomb with a 2 set I walk to the other room and Chris is starting an approach with another 2 set. He hits it off pretty good with one of the girls so I decide to try out some of the stuff I had learned on the other girl. Just when I have her all excited and listening intently to what I'm saying, Chris comes over and tells me we have a time constraint and we have to go. I stay and don't get his hint. He comes over a couple seconds later, calls me an idiot (whispering of course) and tells me to do a takeaway and make her give me her number so that we can continue the conversation some other time. This is an awesome technique for landing the chick. It shows that you can leave her at any time and it also leaves her thinking about the unfinished conversation that you were just having. I tell her that I have to go now. I give her a piece of paper and a pencil and she knows exactly what to do. Then she asks me if I'm gonna remember what we were talking about. I take the number, but I don't think I'll call her. I gave her a 7, but another guy there gave her a 9. Oh well, I chalk it up to experience. We go back to the hotel lounge and Mystery and Chris take any last questions that we might have. I ask a few questions and take off. I wish I could go out with these guys a few more times, but in reality they'd have to baby sit me since my skills are just barely starting to develop. Overall I'm pretty happy with what I learned and am glad that I attended the workshop.